A Little Bit About You:

You and or your partner live at the multiple intersections of identities and often feel like you have to choose between those parts of you to feel safe and connected

 

You are in a partnership that started with promise but you now notice that this relationship is echoing the patterns of previous relationships

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You have endured trauma in your life and you find it is hard to know what you want or even what you are feeling, impacting your connection with each other 

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One or both of you have ADHD and are recognizing you have gotten into a dynamic that does not nourish either of you. 

 

You are parents to kids who are neurodivergent and you find yourself not agreeing on how to parent, creating more disconnection in your relationship with each other.

Our relationships can be under a lot of stress, with the demands of work, family expectations, raising children, and living under oppressive systems that privilege certain identities. If you see your relationship in any of this, it is natural to worry and fear about the future of your relationship with your beloved.  I want you to know that there is hope.

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Maybe you have hoped time will ease your despair. 

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Maybe you have sought out the help of family and friends–while they have the best of intentions, they have either offered unhelpful advice or shamed you for the things going wrong in your partnership.

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Maybe you have even sought professional help but felt like they just did not understand your cultural values that inform your partnership. 

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I applaud your resilience and strength in continuing to move towards connection. Let me help you find your way back to each other, find new ways of connecting, by increasing awareness and understanding of self, your partner, and the relationship.